Read Romans 12:17—13:14
Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good. Romans 12:21

Returning evil for evil, or good for good, is the way most people live. But we Christians must return good for evil. This response requires love, because our first inclination is to fight back. It also requires faith, believing that God can work and accomplish His will in our lives and the lives of those who hurt us.

A friend of mine once heard a preacher criticize him over the radio and tell things that were not only unkind, but also untrue. My friend became angry and was planning to fight back, when a godly preacher said, “If you defend yourself, then the Lord can’t defend you. Leave it in His hands.” My friend followed that wise counsel, and the Lord vindicated him. Anyone can return good for good and evil for evil. If we return evil for evil, we only add fuel to the fire. But if we return good for evil, even if our enemy is not converted, we still experience the love of God in our own hearts and grow in grace (2 Peter 3:18).

Something to Ponder
Is it possible to grow stronger and more mature even though you “lose” in conflicts with evil? If so, why do you think it is so rare to see people return good for evil?