Read 1 Peter 3:7

Today’s Scripture:Husbands, in the same way be considerate as you live with your wives, and treat them with respect as the weaker partner and as heirs with you of the gracious gift of life, so that nothing will hinder your prayers.  1 Peter 3:7

When someone asked Mrs. Albert Einstein if she understood Dr. Einstein’s theory of relativity, she replied, “No, but I understand the doctor.” In my premarital counseling as a pastor, I often asked couples to write down the three things each one thought the other enjoyed doing the most. Usually, the prospective bride would not only complete her list quicker than the groom, but she would also have more correct answers.

It is amazing that two people can make plans to live together for the rest

of their lives and not really know each other! Ignorance is dangerous in any area of life, but it is especially dangerous in marriage. A Christian husband needs to know his wife’s moods, feelings, needs, fears, and hopes. He needs to listen with his heart and share meaningful communication with her.

There must be such a protective atmosphere of love and submission in the home that the husband and wife can disagree and still be happy together.

When either mate is afraid to be open and honest about a matter, the couple is building walls and not bridges.

Something to Ponder

If you are married, what are some practical things you and your spouse can do to try to improve your listening skills? If you are not married, how can you cultivate the ability to listen to others with your heart?